Where invisible threads become visible
赤繩子耳,以繫夫妻之足。雖仇敵之家,貴賤懸隔,天涯從宦,吳楚異鄉,此繩一繫,終不可逭。
"It is a red thread, used to bind the feet of husband and wife. Though their families be enemies, though one be noble and the other lowly, though they serve at opposite ends of the earth, though they come from lands as distant as Wu and Chu — once this thread is tied, they can never escape each other."
— Yuè Xià Lǎorén (月下老人), the Old Man Under the Moon
From Dìnghūn Diàn (定婚店) in Li Fuyan's Xù Xuán Guài Lù (續玄怪錄), Tang dynasty, c. 850 AD. Compiled in the Tàipíng Guǎngjì (太平廣記), 978 AD.
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